Deanna Radi died on July 6, 2020 at the Good Samaritan Home in Stillwater, MN. She was 83 years old having been born June 19, 1937. Her parents, Elizabeth and John Velthuizen and siblings, Betty Erck and Lorraine Labarre, preceded her death.
She met the love of her life when Earl Radi caught her eye, then her heart. They married when she was one month shy of seventeen. They raised three children (Janice, John and Jim) and loved fifty-eight years on this earth until Earl's death March 28, 2013.
Deanna had a sharp mind and proud of her ability handling numbers. This aided her success in managing rental properties and later an in-home daycare center. Her innate sense of welcome, caring and of home were a mainstay. She was known for her home-cooked meals. Her love of trying or tweaking new recipes was shared with her daughter until she could no longer see to cook or bake. Deanna made Christmas cookies for each daycare family every year; she learned cake decorating and made the wedding cakes for each of her children. Although there was a lot of prep work to making a family favorite, egg foo young, it wasn't hers. Earl's fishing success was celebrated with great fish fries. Deanna kept a fully stocked pantry and large freezer to ensure readiness for company. Until failing health kept her from the stove, care providers and the taxman were given homemade brittle as thank you's.
After Earl passed away, Deanna remained active with her family and friends playing card games that would start in early afternoon and continue until early in the morning. As her eye sight diminished, she was given various lights and card holders to aid her in playing. With friends she loved to listen to music at the Little Canada VFW every other Friday.
Deanna passed away with her daughter by her side. Mourning her are three children: Janice (Gary) Klinefelter, John (Bonnie) Radi, Jim (Tami) Radi, five grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren, plus many nieces, nephews and countless friends and families touched by Deanna's hands-on caring. She remained close to her daycare charges; attended their graduations, weddings and was visited by their children. In the last year of her life she said she wanted to be the daycare provider to God.
Special thanks to the Staff of Stillwater Good Samaritan who provided loving care during her last 2 years and heartful thanks to Lakeview Hospice who guided and supported her and the family through her end of the Journey . In lieu of flowers, donations to Lakeview Hospice.
Here is Eric's letter about Grandma:
My fondest memories of my grandmother was our fish frys. The family would get together at her place and have a big fish fry then we would sit down after dinner and play cards. She did like playing cards after a big meal on Saturday nights.
She was also big into baking. When we would go over to her place for dinner she would have some sort of dessert that she had baked.
During her downtime she loved gardening.
from Jim Radi (son)
Mom means a lot of different things to different people.
To me, mom was a care giver, teacher, motivator and disciplinarian.
Care giver - mom was always ready to take care of a sick or injured child. She did everything she could to create a safe environment. Mom had a long career providing child care for many families over the years and I can say these children were as loved at my house as they were at their own homes.
Teacher - mom loved to garden and can vegetables. She loved to cook and imparted that skill and love with her children. Mom spent many hours working with the children she cared for. I remember her teaching manners and respect. I didn't get it at the time, but hearing from mom how these kids turned out to be wonderful adults it all came together. It makes me very happy that she was able to see that as well.
Motivator - Mom was always pushing and prodding. Not one to let things just be. There was always something to do. Something to fix or improve. Maybe I was not always onboard with that, and you know mom, so you know the "look" you either received it or witnessed it at some point. Didn't matter if you were a kid or adult, if you were not pulling your weight or acting right, you got that look and everyone on the receiving end would snap to. Both mom and Dad were wonderful roll models and well, maybe I am a little biased but I think they did a good job instilling a good set of morals and values in all their children along with a desire to succeed and raise happy and successful families too.
Disciplinarian - I think I can sum up who mom was by saying she was a caring and loving person.... until it was time to not be. Mama bear was strong in her. I never had a doubt she would have laid her life on the line to protect her children. On the other hand mom also did not tolerate sass, disrespect, or general bad behavior from her kids. I may have been on the receiving end of the "look" once or twice and that pretty much was it.
Looking back through my life, I never really realized how well mom complimented dad. Between both of them, they had all the bases covered. I truly don't feel that we were left wanting for anything. We definitely were not rich in the monetary sense but we were millionaires.
From Matt Radi (grandson)
My fondest memories are when we would go and eat over there and she would do the traditional grandma thing... knowing how well I ate at home she always asked if I was hungry and would make me food until even I was full. Also, playing cards at the table with her. Playing lawn darts out back. The biggest thing I loved about her was simply the love she gave me from day one. She has the kindest heart and the brightest smile.
From Janice Klinefelter (daughter)
Mom loved her trips to visit me, especially loved Florida. She would enjoy helping me with stained glass. She called herself my washer and squasher with the copperfoil. She loved the pool, once we got her in it, it was hard to get her out when it was time to get ready for a prime rib dinner and dancing at the Elks.
After mom's cervical surgery, she came to Florida to visit. Gary build her a special step stool for therapy and some days when she said she didn't feel like it, he had to give her "the Look"!
When you marry into a family , you always hope to be accepted. Mom did that from day one. She never tried to change me but accepted me for who I was. Encouraged me to follow my dreams.Suppoted me when times were hard. We didn't always agree but we're open and honest with each other which strengthened our relationship. We shared many of the same things. Always found time to. Do this as together even if it was playing cards. We were neither in laws or outlaws. We were neither in laws or out laws. We were MOTHER and DAUGHTER. When we would say I love you ,she would always say"I love you more. I will miss you dearly. BONNIE
I h ave many memories of my grandma. The love she had for for her family was endless. I loved learning how to bake and cook from grandma. Late nights playing g cards with grandma and grandpa. When. going to grandma 's house you wanted to havw an empty stomach. She always made sure you ate snd was full. Grandma always said "if you leave here hungry, it's your own fault"Grandma always had some type of fresh baked goods , whether it be cookies,bars or cakes. SHE WILL BE MISSED BY MANY.
Shannon.
Memories of Mom-
Playing cards for hours on end.
Taking summer vacations but most of all - always there when we needed her.
Love and Miss you - John